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Single and chronically ill on Valentine’s Day?

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So, you’re single.

And chronically ill.

On Valentine’s Day.

But, what the heck, you don’t care.

You don’t care because you’re an alpha-woman even when you sometimes feel like a z-woman… zonked out on meds on the couch.

You don’t care because, seriously, you don’t have to go shopping to find sexy lingerie that’ll only cut off your air supply while wearing it.

You don’t care because you know that the only thing you can find in a chocolate box is a raised BMI.

You don’t care because you don’t thrive on baggage left behind by old flames. Continue reading

Being real!

beingrealImagine, you’re stuck with me in an utterly crazy, hilarious episode of The Big Bang Theory. Let your imagination run riot, especially since this post has some gender reversal role playing added to it.

There is the ditzy Penny-type of person who thinks along the lines of “Not seeing = questioning = perhaps, possibly, maybe believing”. She thinks it’s hard to value the worth of something when it’s not visible, but given time to learn, she might just try and see things your way.

And then there is Leonard, who knows that he’s not on the same score card as some of his contemporaries. He knows that there is truth in the world, and more importantly, inside him. He says, “Stop questioning me. It exists, I have tangible proof, and I will demonstrate it to you until you let go.”

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GUEST POST: Using Social Media to Connect With Other MSers

Guest post by Debra Robert, contributor to the Canadian NewLifeOutlook MS website.

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Twelve years ago I found myself at the bitter end of an unhealthy and tumultuous relationship.

I have always been pretty darn good at being alone. I like my own company. After a couple years on my own however, I began to lose sleep. I’d lie awake in bed wondering if I was to be alone for life.

Around that time, I instinctively began reaching my hand out the window beside my bed. I felt the need to feel the evening air, to play with the weight of the wind on my fingers. I consoled myself imagining that the gentle breeze that wrapped around my hand was actually the touch of a caring friend. The night air was my conduit to the rest of the world, and the feel of wind brushing against my hand got me through difficult nights of fitful unrest. Continue reading

Proud

DSC_0327_editedMum,

I’m a very proud daughter. The way you overcame many obstacles in your life before, during and after your pregnancy with me, made you into a woman who stands up for herself, who is very funny, intelligent and simply, a good soul.

We often tell one another how proud we are of each other, and I cannot think of a better person to be my mum. You are my confidante, my best friend and my rock.

Sometimes I wished I could give you the joy of being a grandmother. Sometimes I wished you could see me in a wedding dress. You would be quite OK with me wearing a feathery knee-length wedding dress matched with my tall, black Dr Martens boots. I know you would defend my alternative choice to anyone who questions my reasoning behind it.

You often tell me how proud you are of me in whatever I do. I cannot even begin telling you how proud I am of you instead.

Think of the many Skype sessions each morning. We have long chats about history, politics, society and religion at 8am most mornings, and can keep on talking about what we see happening around the world the following day too.

You taught me all about being independent, being true to myself, kindness, love, compassion, friendship, the Golden Rule, to work hard for what I believe in and/or dream of, to be proud of myself and to always say please or thank you.

So instead of telling others about the last time someone said they were proud of me, I wanted to thank you for all the goodness in the world that is… you.

xxx

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Daily Prompt: Proud
When was the last time someone told you they were proud of you?

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About Willeke

Neurologically challenged by MS and personally by her will to succeed, Willeke is a disability awareness advocate seeking to improve neurological services in Ireland. By highlighting difficult issues that come with a MS diagnosis, she hopes her words and tenacity can bring justice to people most in need of a modern, inclusive healthcare system that looks after every aspect of life.

©WVE and Ireland, Multiple Sclerosis & Me, 2011-2015. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this blog’s author and/or owner is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to Willeke Van Eeckhoutte and Ireland, Multiple Sclerosis & Me with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.

Thank you

No man’s an island, we weave connections through waves of emotions, through faith and happy occasions. This month, I’ve been very lucky to have found waves meeting others, and to have found people with the kindest of hearts, the softest of voices but the strongest of minds. This is for them.

Joan, Aoife, Niamh, Karen, Declan, Trevis, Lucina, Miriam, Diana, Natalia, Ava, Ruth

My GP, MS nurse, neurologist, ophthalmologist and many others in the two hospitals I attend

The many friends back in Belgium and in Ireland, especially Claudia, Dirk, Susie, Jean, Audrey and Gratiane

and as always:

My mom who never gives up, even in the strongest of seas, every single day.

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The first day

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“Change is good,” so they say.

I totally agree, in fact, I welcome change with open arms.

Afraid of new challenges? No, not me.

Change is good.

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Liebster Award! (no. 4)

liebster2Here is the other Liebster Award that was sitting here idly without being forwarded. Tamie’s Realm kindly nominated me and needless to say, I am very happy about it! As always, nominations – which are winners in WordPress blog terminology – need to follow a few steps when passing on the award.

Here are the rules for this particular Liebster Award:
1. Each nominee must link back the person who nominated them.
2. Answer the 10 questions which are given to you by the nominator.
3. Nominate 10 other bloggers for this award who have less than 200 followers.
4. Create 10 questions for your nominees to answer.
5. Let the nominees know that they have been nominated by going to their blog and notifying them. Continue reading

Liebster Award (no. 3)!

liebster2Desperately behind writing new posts or replies to all your comments, I need to get my proverbial bum in action if I want to start writing properly again. Perfectionism is my middle name, but lately I’ve been slacking, oh yes I have. Allow me to hit myself on the hands in punishment… Ouch… That hurt!

The first award I need to send on, was given to me by Willow’s Corner. Do visit her blog because you will not be disappointed. As always, nominations – which are winners in WordPress blog terminology – need to follow a few steps when passing on the award. Continue reading

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